Monday, June 29, 2015

How to enjoy motherhood

Motherhood is a beautiful thing that only a mother can feel this feeling. Every one love kids. But raising a kid is not an easy task especially if you have nuclear family.
Nuclear family needs you for each and every work . All depend on the lady of house. And if you are mother of new born that needs your full engagement with the infant.
So, because of house work like cooking, washing clothes, dusting etc. simultaneously your baby keeps you on your toes might frustrate the mother . But I have some tips for the mothers who face the situations as I described.
1. In the morning, try to cook early for you and your hubby as definitely your hubby carry the lunch with him.
Do not escape cooking lunch as it affects you both, ur hubby would eat street food that may cause the stomach problem and you would eat snacks like namkeen, biscuit that may cause obesity as u have just given a birth to a child, you should take healthy diet for yourself and your new born.

2. Afterwards, when infant woke up you can easily spend your time with your kid without frustration. As it will keep you and your baby healthy.

2. Once baby get a bath, feeding. Now time to go to bed again, Mother should take a sleep whenever her child asleep atleast for half an hour as it helps her to take a break from the work and the baby with whom you are always busy.

3. And now baby would definitely asleep for 2 to 3 hours, u can finish your pending work. This helps you to being organise every time and day without spoiling your mood.

4. In the evening take your kid to garden , which is good for health for both of you. Baby would feel the change from home and when you meet your friends and talk about the baby you will feel better and relaxed.
5. In the garden, you will come to know , how your friends , who are mother also spend the day with their kid and it increase your knowledge of being motherhood.

6. Enjoying motherhood is completely in your hands, how you balance a life with kid and work , because kid needs us every single minute that sometimes frustrate mothers but , just think of your own when you were kid, how your mother goes around you to fullfil all wishes.


7. Never stop the kid asking his questions, represent the answer in a story , using actions, I bet kids and you as a mother would enjoy it and feel that u have given your kid a satisfying answer. Now a generation kids are curious to know each and every thing in detail . Usually they come up with how? Why? Then? When? Questions that you must answer it helps them to understand the concepts around them and make them intelligent.


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Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Hug your Dad

 Father plays an important role  in our life,  who is strict in nature to shape our future, same time he loves immensely with his deep heart.  We should say thanks to him for his every step he picks for shaping our life. He used to work day and night to fulfill his family wishes. To make our future better in terms of everything we need.
He himself is the person with great values . and always try to make us learn those values so that we become a good human being.

Now, I am married and settled in Mumbai, and my father is in Haridwar, we meet once in a year but we talk daily on phone. I really miss my dad , he is the great hero .
I remember the things , that he scold me for , but now those time remind me , yes he did all those things to make my life better.

I used to go on adventures with him and feel safe with him , he is the man of dignity. Who loves his kids unconditionally.  He never think of himself what he is wearing, but he never forget to buy a new dress for me.
Now, I am far away from my dad but wants him to come and sit with me put his hands on my head to give his blessings, and really want to hug him and would say thanks for all those beautiful values he taught me and made my life wonderful.

My father has a special space in my heart. He is my real hero. I never forget his words: Be good by heart that will make you Being Human .  and yes, when I hug my dad it gives me relaxed feeling that I am in now safe hands. Nothing can touch me. No trouble can come to me . hugging from father is like Jadoo Ki Jhappi which no one wants to escape from it. In the same way, DAD who work day and night for us never asked or never think of to have anything from us in return. But A lovely, cuddle, warm, tight Hug to my dad would give him a smile on his face. And definitely HUG is the thing which tells that we love you a lot.
My Dad never wanted anything in return but a hug can do wonders , it can relieve his panic, give him smile back and offcourse he would say I got everything from you by this hug.
Dad is the person who held our finger and make us walk when we are kid till upto we live on this planet . his advice, scold matters a lot in the life of any kid as they are little things that makes u understand about the sorroundings of yours.

A Warm Hug to a dad means a lot , as he earned everything if u give a cuddle hug to your dad.
I love my dad a lot and yes, when I come back to my in-laws place I really give a tight hug to my dada.
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Tuesday, April 14, 2015

DIL KI DEAL for my loving dadda

Parents do spend their entire life on Raising kids without asking anything in return from them..
Yes , this is true and everyone of us agree with my statement. Mother is like a root for us when she cares us from her deep heart without any partiality. Father is like a stem who always stand for us in any condition occurs in any phase of our life. 

But in reality , what we return to them is nothing. 
Now my dil ki story starts as when I got my first job in Chandigarh and with  first month salary I bought Nokia72 phone for him. I went back to my home place and gift him the phone .. He use it for two to three days and said u keep it .. I am happy with my old phone .. As u need this new phone more than me... 
For me this is DIL KI DEAL as ur parents loves u unconditionally. 

After few months, then  with 6th month salary I got increment too.. I bought saree , t-shirts, jeans top for my mother, father and sister respectively. 
This is true, when u gift someone it is u who feels more happy than the person who receives the gift. 
 I love my dada very much ,  and I want to give him very happiness in this life . 

Whenever I buy anything for him he always speaks that kya jaroorat thi iski. These words really shows that how parents are never wanted anything in existence  from us instead of love.

And yes, we should always care of them with our DIL SE as we can't get these parents in next birth. 
But I shall pray to GOD , please gift me same parents in my next birth. 
I love them deeply . For me they are GOD who never be bias at any point of life. 


My happiness is with them, my sorrow is with them . My parents are my strength and weakness too. I love my parents too much. 
 Parents always thinks about goodness of us. 
I know my story is very simple but putting words into thoughts for my parents bring me tears..  
Mera ek dil jo doon ke liye dhadakta hai... Aur wo humesha hi dhadakta rahega...... This plain, smooth is my dil ki deal with my parents.

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Thursday, September 4, 2014

Jab meine kuch kaha

jab meine kuch kaha, tumne suna nahi
jab meine kuch sunna chaha, tumne kaha nahi
itni be-rukhi mujhse kyun
jab karti ho dusron se batiyan, sunti bhi ho , kehti bhi ho...hasti bhi ho...
Kya ho gaya , kahan kho gaya........ uthte hain ye sawal...
dedo tum mujhe jawab....

Thursday, April 3, 2014

Nigahein

Badi badi nigahon ki
ye jhuki palkein
jab uthti hain
to lagta hai ki mano
swayam bhagwan hath jodkar naman kar rahe hain

Ye sundar nigahein kinhi nigahon se milti hain
to lagta hai ki mano
swayam devlok se sabhi devta foolon ki varsha kar rahe hain

Ye jadoo sa kar dene wali nigahein
kisi bade jaadugar se kam nahi

Pukar

Kehta hai mera dil
sunle koi meri pukar
is bheed mein kahin
kho gayi meri pukar

aur bhi kuch kehna hai
isliye kehta hai mera dil
sunle koi meri pukar

uthte beithte sochta hai dil
jaane kyun nahi sunsakta woh meri pukar
ya woh sunna nahi chahta meri pukar

Aj fir bhar aya mera dil ye sochkar ki kahin khogayi meri pukar